How can I prove my spouse’s adultery?
As an Atlanta divorce lawyer, our law firm is often confronted with dealing with issues of adultery as they related to a divorce. In Georgia, adultery on the part of one spouse can affect many aspects of a divorce proceeding, including alimony, equitable distribution, and even child custody. In order to get to the point that adultery will affect a divorce case, you must prove the adultery, which can be very difficult. Since there is rarely direct proof of adultery, most times it must be proved by circumstantial evidence.
If you and your spouse share cell phone accounts, look at the itemized statements to see if there are substantial calls to a certain number. If you share an email address, you can look at incoming and outgoing emails. If you do not share phone or email accounts, we do not recommend breaking into your spouse’s account if he or she has not given you access, as this could be a criminal violation and the resulting information will likely be inadmissible in Court.
Once a divorce case is filed, however, you will be able to obtain information from your spouse through discovery that may provide evidence of his or her adultery. You can request anything that is reasonably calculated to lead to the discovery of admissible evidence, which includes phone records, emails, other correspondence, bank statements, and credit card statements. Phone records may show numerous calls to a paramour. Emails may show correspondence between your spouse and a paramour. Bank and credit card statements may show evidence of substantial funds spent on flowers, hotels, and other gifts that you did not receive.
You also have the option of hiring a private investigator to follow your spouse if you suspect that your spouse is having an affair. Though this option can be costly, it is often a great way to obtain evidence of adultery. The private investigator will videotape the surveillance of your spouse to see where he or she is going, what he or she is doing and who he or she is with.
